Born to Dive

My parents sometimes wonder why I’ve fallen in love with diving. Mum worries a little, diving isn’t the safest of hobbies and she seems to have this lingering paranoia a tsunami will some day strike while I am breathing compressed air in the middle of the ocean.

Inadvertently my parents raised me to one day become a diver. Born in Sabah, my weekend playground was Tanjung Aru Beach. I’d spent the day building sandcastles with different size pails, collect helpless hermit crabs and pour seawater into sand burrows hoping a big crab would scurry out. My dad used to windsurf, so if he was in the right mood to defy my mum’s nagging, I got to tag along and hence never had a fear of deep open water. I love marine life- it was a treat when friends and family came from the peninsula because it meant a day of snorkeling with the reef fishes at Manukan or Mamutik island.

But at a family trip to Sipadan more than 17 years ago I knew snorkeling would not let me get close or deep enough for long enough to the wonders that lied in the deep blue beyond the island’s steep drop off point. From then on I always knew I wanted to dive.

Although it’s taken me longer than expected, as of 24th July 2011, I am a certified diver and have logged in 30 dives in under 6 months. Some say that’s a lot but I feel it’s too little… For I am making up for lost time :)

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1 million doors

I have a lot of choices in life. Usually that’s a good thing because it means my back is never against the wall as there are many doors I can walk into which will bring me on a different and preferably better path. But of late it’s become all very confusing…

It’s like staring at a million doors, each one has it’s own pros and cons, each one yielding a different outcome on my life and I need to analyze all of them in the next 24 hours, pick which one to walk through before all the doors disappear and I am left with a cell-gray wall.

Perhaps a cell isn’t so bad.

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The two years that just whooshed by…

Two long years have past since I last updated this blog. My writing was never good to begin with and the long hiatus makes getting back into the groove of writing just that much harder.

When I started blogging many years ago it was for an audience and as a form of self expression. Today I write as a means of imprinting my state of mind on somewhere I can look back on in the future. I tend to change without quite realizing it’s happening or has happened and reading back on old blog posts always makes me laugh and reminds me of a time I would have forgotten about otherwise.

I am feeling quite regretfully I’ve havent even tried to update this blog in the past 2 years because so much has happened, so much has changed. Anyway … 2009 started off with a bang. We bought our first home and spent many nights entertaining ourselves and our many friends with great food, nintendo wii and boardgames.

Several months later – April 25 2009, Minh proposed :) I knew it would eventually happen but didn’t expect it to happen when it did. It was the night before he left for Manila for what would be a 9 month stint with a bookmaker.

I spent a big chunk of 2009 and 2010 living out of a suitcase as a result of Minh’s posting to Manila and the travelling required for my job. Initially I enjoyed it but towards the end of 2010 I had enough and would very much prefer to spend my weekends at home.

London eye, tower of london, belgium, korea

But there is one place I can’t get enough of – Bali. For reasons I can’t explain, in Bali my soul feels at home.

Bali, Nyaman Villas, Seminyak Beach

After some really haphazard planning we had a perfect wedding on the 31st of July 2010.

Holiday Villa, Wedding, Cheryl Goh, Minh Loi

A good and long time friend helped us with our wedding video which told the story of how we met :)

I also decided that it was time for a career change and in October 2010 left the MOL-Friendster group one month shy of my seventh anniversary with the company.

The past 2 years have brought about a lot of great changes and I am really excited to see what 2011 holds.

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